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Montreal Me Manques

by Elena on November 11, 2009

The air is so crisp this time of year in Montreal, I literally walk down the street breathing in so deep, I can only imagine I look like I’m smelling something completely foul.  It isn’t as cold as I remember however, as a friend of mine griped about last night.  Can’t say I’ve met a French person who liked the bitter cold as much as he does.  I mean, I’m a fan of the seasons myself, but you don’t hear me wishing for below zero temperatures!  He described a time last winter where it was so cold it made your face swell.  Swollen faces, that’s what we have to look forward to everybody.

I have wrestled back and forth so many times as to whether or not to live and work in Montreal.  There is something about this city that I just can’t place.  The je ne sais quoi factor may seem like a lame excuse to avoid making a definite decision, and in part it is.  It is based more on a feeling than any other palpable explanations.  The sense that this is my city, a place I can wrap my mind around.  For years I went to school and worked in NYC and the pace was addicting, but I never felt like I kept up to speed.

I can’t tell you the happiness it brings me to see old faces that I don’t get to see that often.  Tomorrow I get to see La Bande de Boudoir.  We chose this name in honor of our bar and our common penchant for cheap drinks and some laughs.

Montreal Stairs 2Montreal Stairs

Montreal Stairs 3

Montreal Stairs 4

Ok I fess up.  You can see that there are still leaves on the trees in these photographs.  That is because they are the photos I took a couple months ago on my last trip to Montreal.  My camera is currently in the shop breathing its last breath.  The staircases of the homes in Montreal are very much an image I have of this city and when I walk by them I know I’m really here. 

These pictures are relevant to the feelings I have at the moment.  Can I have nostalgia for a city, that I’m currently in?  Most likely because I’m not sure if I will stay.

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Wake Up Tomorrow: Montreal

by Elena on November 9, 2009

To continue with the idea of the film Fifty People, One Question, I asked myself the very question the film asked.  Where would I want to wake up tomorrow?  Hmm the answer is more often than not Montreal (if you cannot tell already the love I have for that city).  Therefore, this week I decided to mix a little business with pleasure and make another visit to my favorite city up north.

For the Gringa site, I have been wanting to include guides to some of my favorite places.  Montreal will inevitably be a part of this project.  I will be working on this guide this week and I hope to have it ready and published shortly.

Montreal Balcony

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Halloween in NYC

by Elena on November 2, 2009

Lucille Ball, Wonder Woman, Zombie, Lady Gaga, PilotFor those of you unconvinced of the magical powers of All Hallow’s Eve, allow me to ask you this.  What other holiday allows grown adults and children alike to dress up in the wildest costumes without the least bit of social stigma?  Yes some of you may think that this is a child’s holiday, but venture out in New York City on October 31st and you will soon think otherwise. This year in particular, it felt like everyone wanted to take advantage of the chance to dress up as their alter ego, not letting some pesky rain get in the way of all the fun.  The fact that there is this one time of the year where we are allowed to escape our traditional roles, and if we so choose, prance down Bleeker Street in a pink tutu covered in blood or our eyeballs falling out of their sockets is somewhat freeing, don’t you think?

This year the streets were filled with superheroes, detectives, Jokers, the undead, Gilligans, Mary Anns, harlots, detectives, Monroes, Jackie O’s, pop stars, rolls of toilet paper, and even giant green Gumbys?  Add the fact that Halloween fell on the Saturday coinciding with game 4 of  World Series, Yankees vs Phillies.  Needless to say New Yorkers were going nuts.  We won… by the way.  Sorry Philly fans.Doctor, Sleepy, and Wonder WomanAll corners of the Village, East, West, Greenwich and everything in between, had people walking around in costume, some even getting a little too into character.  We stumbled upon a Bruno so dedicated to his role he had to interview every person in his path.  The living dead were jumping on unsuspecting pedestrians and the occasional taxi cab.  The Halloween Parade that marches down 6th avenue, often times takes over two hours to fully leave the starting point.  It truly is an experience that people visiting this city won’t ever forget, definitely the most eccentric NYC parade you will ever see.  The great part is that everyone is allowed to participate.  You merely need to show up at the starting point in your best costume, and you are free to parade down 6th avenue dressed as a giant flea, zombie, fire breathing dragon, or whatever else your creative mind can come up with.

Halloween Parade in New York City

Blockheads

Image via: clgregor

Toilet Paper Man

Image via: Bob Jagendorf

PiratesImage via: celebdu

NYC Finest and Obama

Image via: Bob Jagendorf

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Preparation For The Trek To Machu Picchu

by Elena on October 20, 2009

The day before we started our trek to Machu Picchu we met with our tour guide for a quick question and answer session.  Our excitement slowly turned to a subtle anxiety with each carefree joke he made about the dangers of such a hike.  He smiled as he told us he was sick, while swishing around a power drink, Peruvian Gatorade so to speak, in his left hand.  With each sway of the bottle my stomach turned, an inevitable foreshadowing of what was to come.  Still he assured us that we will be fine, leaving us awkwardly laughing and bewildered by his dark humor and self deprecating demeanor.  Is he serious?  Wait so my brain can hemorrhage if  I don’t drink enough water?  How is this funny again?

The bit of anxiety was probably for the better because before that moment I was feeling a false sense of security.  Pshh we’ll be fine.  High altitude sickness is for pansies.  It’s different when heeding the advice of an expert versus reading a guidebook.  Suddenly your inflated sense of self subsides and the reality of the situation (hiking for days at high altitude) starts to sink in.

Machu Picchu

After instilling a tiny bit of fear, our guide gave us some advice on what we need to bring for the trip.  I created a list of his suggestions, combined with some things I felt were useful for me on the trek.

Water is very important.  In order to prevent altitude sickness, you must keep hydrated, sipping water every 15 minutes or so when you are feeling sick.  On organized trips such as ours, water is provided.  Don’t worry they boil it in order to prevent sickness.  I would suggest you avoid drinking from any stream you find along the trail.  It looks tempting, however our guide told us a story about a group of his who decided to take a shower in a stream a long the way, and they all ended up stranded in the mountains, fighting off various sicknesses.  I don’t know about you, but I’d rather stay dirty.

Flashlights and headlights are very useful for rummaging around at night.  A headlight may seem weird, but when you are looking for something in the middle of the night in freezing weather, you won’t care how ridiculous you look.  You can tie up a flashlight in your tent in order to make it easier for moving around.  It isn’t completely pitch black outside, however, we were able to benefit from the clear skies and light of the moon.

Toilet paper is your friend.  I do not need to emphasize that there is no bathrooms or running water along the way.  You will be 3 days in the great outdoors.  Bring that paper.

Disposable plastic bags are necessary in order to store things in them.  I didn’t think I would need them, but they ended up being useful.  Also keep in mind that you can’t just throw away your garbage on the trail.  You have to carry everything with you, or give your trash to the guides on the trip with you.  Bags make everything easier.

Sunscreen is necessary if you don’t want to get burned from walking in direct sunlight for hours.  A hat will also help.

Sleeping bags are provided for an extra cost.  Rent the bags.  Who wants to be lugging around sleeping bags.

Sleeping bag sacks or liners are great because they keep you extra warm and they also shield you from directly touching the sleeping bags you rent.  I suggest getting a silk liner because the threading is much more tight, and harder for bed bugs to get into.  Cotton is cheaper, but more things can pass through.

Snacks, especially chocolate, give you energy and prevent altitude sickness.  If you start to feel light headed you should have some sort of sugar.  Our guide gave us lemon drops whenever we started to feel sick.

You will need to carry a daypack with you.  The mules and other guides will be carrying your regular bags and backpacks (there is a weight limit) and they will speed ahead of you.  Everything you need easy access to (medicine, camera) should be in your daypack.  Don’t make it too heavy because you have to carry it.

Travel towel in order to clean your face and wash up.  There are many different kinds of towels that are made to dry quickly.

Warm clothes and jacket will probably be one of the most important things to bring.  Because of the high altitude the temperatures can drop significantly.  If you travel during the rainy season it will also be colder.  A warm hiking jacket will be the best for you.

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Same Site, New Design

by Elena on October 14, 2009

Gringa Espanola GirlI am very happy this week because I was able switch over to WordPress from Blogger.  Seeing as I’m not really an expert at HTML or PHP (or any other intimidating techie acronyms), I had to play around with the design.  I oh so humbly pat myself on the back for learning the little bit that I did without banging my head on my keyboard.  Did you know that you have to wait 5-7 days in order to switch from one host to another?  News to me.

But alas Gringa Española is up and running under the same domain, and with a different look.  There is a new photography section that I will be updating. For the new design I choose the Thesis Wordpress Theme.  It gives me the flexibility that I want and helps a fledgling blogger like myself deal with all the intricacies of WordPress.

Hope you enjoy the new design!

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It’s Like Riding a Bicycle…

by Elena on September 2, 2009

“It’s like riding a bicycle,” or so they say about something you never forget how to do. Although I wobbled back and forth on the racing bike, a bit too tall for my 5′2 frame, the seller called me a natural. Of course he’d say that, hoping that a few gentle strokes to my ego would coax me into buying his old bike. I realized the saying is true, I didn’t forget how to ride a bike, but they never said anything about riding it well. The test spin was a success, considering I didn’t fall over, break the thing, or cause any bystanders bodily harm. Nonetheless I left the seller disappointed, realizing that the racing bike with its large thin wheels, was too much for me to handle.
Biking in Montreal
I decided to go smaller, so much smaller that I risked the little kid, bike jabs from my friends. Even so I loved it. My girl’s cruiser bike was perfect for a cycling friendly city like Montreal. After a couple self-affirmations and the support of an equally inexperienced friend, we were able to conquer the streets and avoid incoming traffic.
Biking in Montreal 2
The incredible talents of Montreal cyclists.

  • Texting while riding.
  • Talking on their cell phone while riding.
  • Listening to their ipods while riding (you get my drift). They can handle technology on a bike.
  • Talking to one another while cycling side by side. Yeah it seems easy enough, but try it before you judge.
  • Successfully balancing a large quantity of ’stuff’ in a basket at the front or back of their bike.
  • Successfully balancing another person on the front or back of their bike.
  • Riding with no hands (in order to text, scratch their head, show off, etc.).
  • Riding in the pouring rain. (I’ve done this too! It is actually a lot of fun).
  • While I have not seen it, people tell me that Montrealers continue to ride their bikes well into wintertime and even during snowstorms.

Biking in Montreal 3
Novice riders like ourselves slowly learn the tricks of the trade.
Biking in Montreal 4
My old companion is now being ridden around Montreal by a girl from Argentina. May she treat it well.
My Bike in Montreal

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The French Don’t Smile

by Elena on September 1, 2009

The French don’t smile.
French People Don't Smile
Americans do!
Americans Smile

I’ve been reminiscing a lot lately. Must have something to do with my up and coming birthday. Impending birthdays always seem to make me a little nostalgic. Perhaps I’m longing for my love affair with Montreal (when am I not?) and the carefree days of little responsibility, besides my worries on how to order my crème brûlée in French. Je vais prendre une crème brûlée s’il vous plaît.

In Montreal we had a group that we liked to call Le Bande de Boudoir, created after an eventful cinq a sept at Boudoir Cafe, and perhaps too much Quebecois beer. Since we were all learning English, French or Spanish, and we came from all over the world, it made for some interesting conversation and miscommunication. There were no reservations here, every stereotype on the table. Are all the French snotty and uptight? Of course not, but we sure as hell would harp on it, just as much as we’d emphasize how loud and obnoxious us Americans are. Is it true? Not really, but it makes for more interesting bar talk. It was the the ‘if you can’t beat ‘em, join ‘em’ philosophy, and it seemed to work. After spending so much time trying to deter assumptions and stereotypes, there comes a point where you can only welcome them.

Possibly one of my favorite pictures of all time. Check out our friend ‘the bartender’ in the background. Somehow he made it into quite a bit of our pictures.

Bande du BoudoirBande du Boudoir2

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Why Montreal?

by Elena on August 12, 2009

When I arrived to Montreal after 1 year of being away, I felt a twinge of sadness for what I had left behind. I had left behind a city that I loved so much, a city that had become my own. Initially it was hard for me to leave, but I had to move forward and continue on with my journey, wherever that may have led next.
Downtown Montreal
What is it that makes Montreal so special? Lots of my friends have asked me this question when I had toyed around with making Montreal somewhat of a permanent residence. I have been able to come up with many answers: the lifestyle, the festivals, the people, the languages, the culture, the accessibility of riding a bike, people watching, etc etc. When I asked people from Montreal why they stay, they all say the same thing. The city has a charm that is unique. There is a certain je ne sais quoi that is hard to pinpoint.
Downtown Montreal Creme de la Creme
A good friend, faced with the decision of leaving Montreal to go back to Toronto, created a clever and ever so fitting metaphor for both cities. He said his decision was like choosing between two women, both very different and appealing for different reasons. Montreal is the sexy woman, full of life, culture, passion and excitement. Toronto is the rational woman where he can have security and support, which will allow him to focus on his career. Of course these are very personal opinions, not to say that Toronto is boring, far from it in fact, but rather that Montreal represents something for him as it does for me. Maybe it’s because I myself have always leaned towards excitement that I feel the gravitational pull that a city such as Montreal has upon its visitors. For us, myself and my friend choosing between two amazing women, Montreal is our first love, the one that is hard to forget.

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Road Trip Back To Montreal

by Elena on August 9, 2009

New York City to Montreal takes approximately 6-7 hours in car, and it was approximately 6-7 hours that I spent listening to a book on tape, brushing up on some French, humming to sickeningly catchy pop tunes, and of course pondering the answer to life’s biggest questions. My silver civic has gotten me pretty far throughout our time together, with minimal disappointments, chugging along route 87 with ease; although somewhere along the Adirondacks I really started to wish I had gone for the extra coffee and accessible munchies. The anticipation of seeing the city I left behind a year ago was building, as the radio stations slowly started to change from country to French. The Quebecois accent I used to find jarring and strange was suddenly comforting. I’m back! Montreal m’a tellement manqué.
Roadtrip back to MontrealCanada my second home!Roadtrip back to Montreal Canada Border

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Calca Market

by Elena on July 31, 2009

There is no secret that I love markets. I honestly don’t think there is a better, more public way of seeing a culture, all the food and customs out for display, the people gathered and slowly chatting and doing their day’s work. Of course the fact that I’m surrounded by all sorts of food doesn’t hurt either.

Before we started off our trek towards Machu Picchu, our tour guide picked us up bright and early, and was a little upset that we had him waiting 10 minutes while we lugged out our belongings sleepily and slowly to the car. It took us about an hour to get to Calca, my memory fails me with the exact specifics. Calca is a small town in the Calca province. We stopped to get some food and drinks and to orient ourselves before we began. We didn’t see much of the town besides the market, that despite the early hour was pretty busy.

Growing up in a Spanish household, as well as my frequent visits to Galicia, have made me pretty accustomed to seeing fish with the head still attached, dead chickens with some sparing feathers, pigs feet, intestines, and most others animal parts and nasty bits that are meant to be consumed. It may not have phased me, but I could tell some of my companions were not feeling as at ease. It is important to pay attention, even if it makes you uneasy, because the items found in each market reflect the customs of a culture. It is really a question of resources. You use what is available for you.
A poor family will undoubtedly make sure to use all parts of whatever animals are available. It would be extremely wasteful to throw out anything if there was a chance to keep your family well fed. The traditions have held on throughout the years, hence why many cultures continue to cook with the same ingredients people have used for hundreds of years. Of course other factors, such as religion and wealth, also have a lot of influence in everyday cuisine. A vegetarian from Gujurat will have a much different diet than a Catholic from Kerala, for example. Nevertheless if you want an overall idea make your way over to the nearest, local market and you will see.
Warning, nasty bits are below. Scroll with caution.

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